Thursday 15 December 2011

Rural: Not what it used to be

In Canada, rural used to be the norm. There was a time when the majority of the population lived in small communities, employed in agriculture or a related industry. Increasingly, fewer and fewer people live rurally. As rural areas depopulate, communities must either redefine themselves or face extinction. The challenge, at times, seems insurmountable. However, there are countless examples of communities that have stepped up to the challenge.

Rural is not what it used to be. Communities have had to innovate to stay alive. I wanted to highlight a couple of #ReasonsRuralRocks from last week that provide evidence of the “new” rural. I say “new” because, of course, rural has always been innovative. The pioneer settlers had to be innovative to survive. Anyone who has visited a farm and seen an improvised tool or an inventive solution to a farmer’s problem knows that the spirit of innovation is alive and well in rural today.

In these #ReasonsRuralRocks, let us be encouraged to see beyond the problem. I was reminded earlier this week of the scene in Patch Adams where a fellow patient asks him how many fingers he sees. “If you focus on the problem you can’t see the solution; never focus on the problem.”

kelsey 20th anniversary of community dinner theater - a real success story!! @midgelambert

Kelsey, Alberta had a population of 14 according to the 2008 census. Still, there is obviously great support from the surrounding rural area, and beyond, that has allowed their dinner theatre to continue to be successful for two decades.

Brosnan, Bond, Bag of Bones, Buses and Brooklyn... Nova Scotia? @jlye007

Across the country a rural community attracts the attention of Hollywood and comes up with a creative answer to the producers problem.

Thanks to @midgelambert and @jlye007 for sharing these inspiring stories, and to everyone who shared #ReasonsRuralRocks. Please continue to spread the message and send in your reasons.

Monday 5 December 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Nov. 27- Dec. 3

Compiled for your viewing convenience, the best #ReasonsRuralRocks from the week that was:

  • Dark skies full of stars. @BeckyMcCray     
  • can sit at my desk and watch my kids treat their 4-H calves like pets! @greggjack
  • rural Cdn is essential to our econ prosperity, food security, enviro protection. @mikebuda
  • #suntanningnaked haha. Or the access to locally produced food, great neighbours and redneck fun! @southpawmegan
  • Just love my hens - now they are old enough I get fresh eggs every day. All they need in return is lots of tlc @IrvingsFarm
  • local business helping to set up community event during business hours @clht1

To all who shared reasons, thank you! Please continue to spread the love of rural

Monday 28 November 2011

Talking about the Good...and the Bad

With all this focus on #ReasonsRuralRocks are we ignoring the challenges that many rural citizens face? This past week a long time supporter of the trend asked, "Is poverty in Rural Alberta Hidden?" and attached the rural rocks hashtag. I'll admit, my immediate reaction was, "That's not the point of this forum." However, it was never my intention that the trend should gloss over the issues that rural faces. It has always been my hope that #ReasonsRuralRocks would provide a space for open conversations about all things rural. And such conversations must be open to discussing the negative as well.


That being said, it is easy to find news pieces, academic literature, and editorials about what is wrong with rural. It is much more difficult to find someone willing to share what makes rural great. It is my belief that if we truly value rural we must share our experiences...

  • @ OrdNE
  • The CEO of Wimmer's Meats, still can take the time to pick up his grandkids from school. (And drop of my daughter.) @creativebug
  • No matter where you go or how long you are gone, you can always call your rural community your 'home'. @ACSRC


    ...the good and the bad. 

Monday 21 November 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Nov 13-19

A winter theme has continued in the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend. I hope this post finds you warm and cozy. Thanks to everyone for sharing your favourite reasons.

  • I will never get tired of flying over beautiful rural America  and seeing sunrise! @JenaeHansen
  • sunsets and sunsets....  @onepercentyello 
  • The postman will hand me my mail if I catch him on another street. Plus, he picks up from my door. Service! @KatieMcCaskey
  • Snow days off school. @KSherbi
  • The County will plow my driveway! @midgelambert
  • Waking up in winter and looking outside to find that the neighbor plowed the driveway. @ripplenw
  • Letting your neighbors know when road conditions are very poor and travel not recommended. @jbatiuk
  • the way your community rallies around when there's a loss in the family. So thankful!! @clht1
     

Monday 14 November 2011

Change of Season

After the exciting opportunity to guest blog with Ripple, I figured it was time to get back to work here. I've fallen a bit behind on updating the latest #ReasonsRuralRocks. After reading this post, you should be all caught up on the best and brightest reasons from Oct. 30 to Nov. 12. With the changing season, there was a noticeable shift in the reasons being shared. It's been great to see that people are reminded of the greatness of rural winter. 

  • People are so nice @rainbow832
  • Lots of amazing craft sales coming up! Local entrepreneurs have amazing goodies for the Christmas season! @return2rural
  • Breathing clean crisp air on a sunny autumn day @clht1
  • We do get pizza delivery, but often have reassure the driver they're in the right place when the pavement ends.  @alpacamundo
  • Locked my keys in the car @ the store tonight & my bro was there in 10 minutes on foot carrying a slim jim. @creativebug
  • Community Fall Suppers @plind
  • Snow is in the forecast and flurry conditions are on the way. Yet another #ReasonsRuralRocks! @OrdNE
  • Letting your neighbors know when road conditions are very poor and travel not recommended @jbatiuk
  • By 2050, 70% of us will live in cities. That's one #reasonsruralrocks for me. @katpinke
  • Have been thinking how the disparity between extreme rich & poor is less visible in small/rural places. @KatieMcCaskey
  • Sunrises @JenaeHansen 
Thanks to everyone for supporting the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend. It means a lot to me. I look forward to hearing more great reasons! 

Wednesday 9 November 2011

Guest Blog with Ripple

In lieu of a formal blog posting, I'd like to direct you to my guest blog entry with Ripple. A great big thanks to the Ripple folks for the opportunity to reach a wider audience.

Monday 31 October 2011

New Voices

Hello Rural Fans! It goes without saying that I love all the #ReasonsRuralRocks participants that share reasons frequently. However, it's always exciting to hear new voices join the conversation. Today I'd like to share 5 of my favourite #ReasonsRuralRocks from last week (Oct. 23-29) from regulars and rookies alike:
  • Almost forgot how nice it is to hear cows, owls, and chirping birds instead of traffic, sirens, and pigeons! @JenaeHansen
  • Rural, northern, and remote communities support industries that produce 50% of Canada's exports. @FCM_online
  • you can walk into a job interview and discuss your roots as a way to distinguish your values from other candidates @onepercentyello
  • don't need social network like nextdoor.com to know your neighbor @AnjahHoward

If you're on Twitter, check out these rural loving tweeps. Please help keep the #ReasonsRuralRocks conversation alive by adding your voice! 

Tuesday 25 October 2011

Short commute and a view that's a beaut!

While there weren't enough #ReasonsRuralRocks shared between Oct 16-22 to make a Top Ten list, there were several worth sharing. 

  • You can have a massive BonFire in your backyard.  @CircleBalpacas 
  • According to my iPod, my commute to work was 2 minutes and 17 seconds. @Laurie_Callsen
  • Being out on the prairies and feeling unbothered--no disturbance except a cool breeze of fresh air.  @KSherbi 
  • You can actually SEE the starry sky. @celticperegrini 
  • You'll probably know everyone you pass on main street, but even if you don't, you'll still say hi. @janisirwin 
Thanks everyone! Please keep sending your #ReasonsRuralRocks to @sherbani on Twitter or post them here.  

Monday 17 October 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Oct. 9-15

The Top Ten #ReasonsRuralRocks for Oct. 9-15 includes mentions of great neighbours, fall colours, and clean air. These are all reasons I love rural. I hope as you read the list you see reasons that resonate with your own feelings about rural.

10. Linear assessment. @CMNesbitt
9. Howlin' coyotes on a moonlit night. Rarely happens in the neighborhoods of the cities, as I understand it. @NERenaissance
8. The best neighbours you could ever ask for. @KSherbi
7. As I meet more city folk, I am more proud of my country upbringing. I am a rural ambassador! @onepercentyello
6. Community members support above and BEYOND for any cause... @dizzyraerae
5.  My neighbourhood has a 10 km radius.  @ConsultInsight
4. Beautiful fall colours in the country and delicious harvest fare! @theSSEarth
3. If u get stuck in the ditch somewhere no matter what time it is, someone will always come help u out. @pugsley208
2. Breathing crisp, clean, country air on a fall day. I didn't realize how great this was until I moved to downtown. @janisirwin
1. Directions involve phrases like "go to the end of the pavement."  @Alpacamundo


I truly believe that the list of #ReasonsRuralRocks will never be fully complete. There will always be more reasons to add. If you're favourite thing about rural hasn't been mentioned please send a comment or a tweet (@sherbani and make sure to use the hashtag #ReasonsRuralRocks).

And if you like what these folks have to say, and you're on the Twitter, why not follow them?

Wednesday 12 October 2011

I Love Rural

Sadly, I was unable to enter Return to Rural's I <3 Rural Contest due to a missing USB cord. Today I was finally able to upload what would've been our contest entry. Even though there is no chance of winning prizes, it seemed a shame not to share these pictures. I hope you enjoy! 

A beautiful sunset that inspired the photo shoot. 


Me, my dad, and my sister- rocking the coverall look.


I <3 Rural


Love for rural! 


Magical, isn't it?


Tuesday 11 October 2011

Elevators, Community, and Roots

I'm back after a refreshing long weekend filled with food, friends, family, and good times. My family had the unique opportunity to share our rural way of life with a friend who is originally from the greater Toronto area. Nothing helps you see your world with opened eyes more than having the chance to share it with someone who is seeing it all for the first time. Over the course of the weekend, Lauren had her first ride in a pickup truck, climbed her first straw bale, and got to see cows up close for the first time. She lit up with each new experience. It was great to see her get excited about all these simple things that my family and I just take for granted. I am thankful I was reminded that even something as basic as a clear night's sky can bring joy to our lives. 

And with that, I am pleased to present the #ReasonsRuralRocks honourable mentions for the week of Oct. 2-8:

  • I <3 rural poster on my wall in my new home in Montreal. You can take the girl out of the country, but those roots run deep. @onepercentyello
  • The entire community attends sporting events. Parents don’t just drop off their kids! @JenaeHansen 
  • Rural communities supporting locally owned businesses and sharing in the profits. @wrcoop
  • Grain elevators and UFA logoed hats. @jbatiuk
  • A gorgeous autumn day 2day. Warm sun, a light breeze and a prairiescape of vibrant and earth tone hues. @clht1
  • Your local elevator will give you and your non-rural friend a tour and you will see forever. @KSherbi  
 This week please take some time to think about why you are thankful for rural. As always, I ask that you share your #ReasonsRuralRocks here on the blog or on Twitter (with me @sherbani). 

Wednesday 5 October 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Top Ten Sept 24-Oct 1

I'm a bit behind getting last week's Top Ten #ReasonsRuralRocks together. That's because I've been spending some time on the road visiting rural communities that participated in the University of Alberta, Augustana Campus' Rural Capacity Internship. What a great reminder of why rural rocks! Each community represents a unique set of challenges yes, but also countless opportunities. Similarly, I was reminded of the innovative nature of rural at the GETGlobal Summit hosted by Return2Rural last week. By the looks of it, I wasn't the only one reflecting on the greatest of rural:

10. Our GETGlobal panelists are young, rural entrepreneurs. LIVING proof of being successful and living rural! @return2rural
9. Long, rambling country drives in the fall to see the beautiful colors of the trees. @jbatiuk
8. Creative pilgrims are alive and well in "the middle of nowhere".  @KatieMcCaskey
7. No tall buildings to block stunning sunrises/sets. Trees, yes. Mountains, yes. But not much anthropogenic. @abruralgirl
6. Sitting next to a fire with good friends and enjoying looking at all the stars and the Milky Way.  @johndilbeck
5. Farm tools are a lot bigger than city tools. @CircleBalpacas
4. Potlucks! Country people make the best food. @KSherbi
3. Witnessing the miracle of life. @Alpacamundo
2. Being able to see the wonder of the Northern Lights, while your city friends were wishing they could. @ACSRC
1. Folk from another community 50 miles (80km) away are more often neighbours rather than acquaintances.  @clht1 

- Share your #ReasonsRuralRocks with me (@sherbani)! 

Monday 26 September 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Top Ten Sept 18-24

I am pleased to present an absolutely stellar Top Ten list for the week of Sept. 18-24! The creativity of responses and genuine love for rural that is evident inspires me.

10. You can see the stars at night.  @Alpacamundo
9. Rural Alberta roadtrips! Always something new and exciting to see! @ACSRC
8. Big Backyard Weddings | Unlocked Doors | Morning Fog | Spectacular Sunsets | Neighbours with names | @thisLeeRose
7. After a snow your neighbor plows the driveway while u watch thru the window in your robe drinking coffee. @CircleBalpacas
6. I love listening to crickets and frogs instead of trucks, cars, and airplanes every night!  @johndilbeck
5. You have a backyard! Not only do you have a backyard, but you have a backyard that goes on for miles and miles!@KendraKerrigan
4. Random vegetables on my doorstep: cucumbers, carrots and potatoes. @jbatiuk
3. There's nothing better than a small town Friday night under the football lights. @katpinke
2. Everyone in the house cheers when the weatherman mentions your community on the TV weather report. @ 4gotten_alberta
1. The only time you have to lock your door is to keep the neighbor kid out of your cake you need for a meeting that night. @ MillerSoDak 


And a special mention goes out to @ MeganTannas who shared her 5 favourite #ReasonsRuralRocks:

"1. Being able to sing and yell as loud as you want 2. Cows and horses 3. Haying season 4.The smell 5. The stars at night" 

Thanks Megan! And thanks to everyone who participated for, yet again, reminding me that I am truly lucky to live where I live.

Thursday 22 September 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks the A-Z List

Back in the early stages of the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend, I challenged myself to think of a different reason for each letter of the alphabet. Not only did this ensure that I would not end up repeating myself, it encouraged me to think creatively (and critically) about what it is that has made my experience of rural so wonderful. I came up with "A" back on July 27 and, with some assistance from a loyal #ReasonsRuralRocks follower, "Z" came about on Sept. 8.


Now it is my great pleasure to share the #ReasonsRuralRocks A-Z List:



A.  Apple pie made with fruit from your Baba's back yard. YUMMY! 
B.  "Running away from home" age 5, the whole neighbourhood looking for me until I was       found (asleep under my bed)
C.  My co-worker just shared fresh peas from her garden for lunch
D.  Riding in the combine with Dad and family suppers in the field at harvest time
E.  Every one who has grown up rural inherently knows many #ReasonsRuralRocks, sometimes they're hard to express in words 
F.  Freedom. Whether it's the freedom to let your kids explore without worry or to eat food right out of the soil. Freedom.
G.  Grasshoppers, frogs, birds- the sounds of summer
H.  Having a sense of connectedness to people and place
I.   Independence; you don't have to adhere to the condo board's regulations. If you want a holstein style fence, go for it!
J.  Just being; appreciating exactly where you are and living in the moment.
K.  Kingman, Alberta- Lutefisk capital of the province, alive and well at 102
L.  Llamas, alpacas, and huarizos- oh my! #ReasonsRuralRocks and a shout out to new   friends @Alpacamundo and @CircleBalpacas
M.  My family, proudly farming in Alberta since 1901.
N.  Noise, light, and air pollution are basically nonexistent
O.  Owning land and having the responsibility to ensure its sustainability
P.   PRAIRIES!
Q.  Quiet reflection under a sky that doesn't end
R.  Round Hill, Ab (my home town) pop. 100, ability to raise tens of thousands of dollars for community members in need
S.   Sunshine all week- summer's not over yet!
T.   Thinking about time out in the field when you're stuck in the office
U.   Up early, to bed late- worth every minute
V.   Vacations consisting of camping in the "back 40"
W.  You can drink the water right out of the tap. 
X.    Sharing at the town meeting that you learnt to play the xylophone
Y.    Young people who know know where they've come from and are proud of it
Z.    You save the trip to the Zoo, there's enough wildlife to meet on a stroll through 'town'


*X and Z are the brainchild of @DDD222111





Note that all of these (excluding the ones from @DDD222111) have been posted by me between the dates of July 27 and September 8, 2011. So there is nothing here that you probably haven't already seen. However, in case you missed any of them, or if you are new to the #ReasonsRuralRocks conversation, this list should get you all caught up. My challenge to you is to come up with your own creative #ReasonsRuralRocks list, much like "My 5+ Reasons Rural Rocks" by @GardenVariety or "3 Reasons Rural Rocks" by @Michael_Knutson. 


Let me know which are your favourite reasons on the A-Z List! 

Monday 19 September 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Sept 11-17

#ReasonsRuralRocks, as a trend, seems to go in waves. After a great response the week before, there weren't quite enough to make a Top Ten for last week. However, many of the reasons I heard are worth sharing. Hopefully they will inspire many more responses for this week! 

  • People are faster to "friendly". I've had more passing conversations with strangers in small towns than in cities. @UrbanEscapee
  • Because the sunsets are always beautiful. @Brian_Nelson93
  •  Harvest supper on the tailgate - with fresh pie! @onepercentyello
  • You can't be rude on the road, you'll see that person in 5 minutes at the post office.  @eastsideSBC
  • You can live in rural Illinois and still keep in touch with your peeps in rural Alberta, CA, rural East TX, rural .......  @CircleBalpacas
  • Although you're in the middle of nowhere, you know you're somewhere, and being lost only lasts so long.@KSherbi




    - Have a great week! 

Wednesday 14 September 2011

Inspiring Support

You can't start a trend with only one person- this goes without saying. In the case of the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend I am so grateful for all of those people who have shared their love of rural and helped create a conversation about the positive features of rural life.

One person who has been particularly inspiring in his support is Michael Knutson of the ReImagine Rural blog and Rural Learning Centre. I am very honoured to be featured in the ReImagine Rural post for Sept 14th. It is because of support like this that I am encouraged to continue spreading the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend.

The whole experience has been very therapeutic for me and has reminded me not to take for granted the many wonderful things about my own rural community. #ReasonsRuralRocks puts a smile on my face everyday and for this I thank all of you.

Let's keep the conversation going; send your #ReasonsRuralRocks to me (@sherbani) on Twitter or share them on this blog.

Monday 12 September 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Top Ten Sept 5-10

Last week was another great week for the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend. Here's the Top Ten:

10. Got to drive the tractor today! @CircleBalpacas  
9. Blood pressure returning to normal after a weekend in the city. @onepercentyello
8. The light outside your window at 3am is the moon, not a flashy billboard. @KendraKerrigan
7. Endless country road trips for me and my Harley-Davidson! @SandraSchwab
6. u know skinny dipping at the lake is not a big deal because u know nobody is going to see u. @Boxofsunshine77
5. Efficient, elitist, educated, essential, elegant, and emergent (from My 5+ Reason Rural Rocks) @GardenVariety
4. Make your own free parking - anywhere you want. @tomjordinson
3. Zero chance of encountering people who are in a hurry - haste has no place here. @monicambailey
2. My child calls half the community Aunty or Uncle. It takes a village to raise a child. @jbatiuk
1. Spent 20 mins. helping a stranger get unstuck and 45 mins. leaning on a tailgate talking like we have been best friends. @greggjack

I'd love to hear some feedback; which reason resonates with you? Thanks to everyone who shared #ReasonsRuralRocks last week. If you'd like to join in the conversation, share your reasons here or get on Twitter, use the hashtag, and let me @sherbani know why you love rural. 

Thursday 8 September 2011

5+ Reasons Rural Rocks

Strawberry Creek Gardens, based in Thorsby, Alberta, is not your garden variety farm (follow @GardenVariety). This week they kindly contributed their 5+ #ReasonsRuralRock. What makes their blog entry so great is how it discusses rural from a variety of perspectives- from international, to farm dweller to city resident. The author has had the opportunity to experience rural around the world. In my own limited international experience, I've enjoyed feeling "at home" in another country, where I couldn't speak the language and didn't always understand the customs, because ruralness translates across linguistic and cultural barriers.

Another thing that I found interesting about Strawberry Creek Gardens blog entry is how it used words like "efficient" and "elitist", which are generally associated with urban and oftentimes have a negative connotation, to describe the advantages of rural. Overall, their 5+ Reasons Rural Rocks is a remarkable list...but don't just take my word for it; read it yourself!

Thanks so much Strawberry Creek Gardens for this wonderful contribution to the #ReasonsRuralRocks trend. Readers, hopefully this post will tide you over until the Top Ten for Aug 5-9 comes out next week. Keep sending your #ReasonsRuralRocks to me (@sherbani) so that we can make it a great Top Ten!


Tuesday 6 September 2011

#ReasonsRuralRocks Aug 29-Sept 2

Sorry for the delay on getting this post ready. I spent the long weekend in rural Manitoba where access to internet was a tad limited and made blogging challenging. Now back in my home province, I see that there were not quite enough #ReasonsRuralRocks last week to make a Top Ten. While that is a bit disappointing, there were some great ones. Here are my favourites:

  • I hate getting up early…but the sunrise certainly makes it worth it.  @rainbow832 
  • This year my family’s 100 years on the original homestead! @dizzyraerae 
  • You can have as many dogs as you want, the ones that bark all night are assigned to guard the back pastures. @CircleBalpacas 
  • You can't go for a walk on the road without someone asking if you need a ride. @abruralgirl 
  • Neighbour falls out of tree and the whole town is booking time on his land to get the crop off. Galahad!” @onepercentyello 
  • Everywhere I go, fresh produce! We love rural, yes we DO, we love rural, how 'bout you?  @return2rural 
  • It's a wildlife safari from my kitchen window: moose, lynx, deer, bears, migratory birds. @jbatiuk      

As always, I encourage you to consider following these lovers of rural and to add your own voice to the conversation. I hope the first week of September has been full of moments when you are reminded of your own #ReasonsRuralRocks. 

 

Tuesday 30 August 2011

The Reason behind "Reasons Rural Rocks"



The Reasons Rural Rocks blog has evolved from my blog that I kept as a Rural Capacity Intern (Podcasting through the Prairies). When the internship officially ended last Friday, it seemed a shame to stop discussing all of the wonderful attributes of rural communities. Hence, I've created a new blog so that the conversation can continue. 

For those of you just learning about this trend, I invite you to watch the following video which gives some background information:



So how can you join the conversation? If you are on Twitter send your #ReasonsRuralRocks to @sherbani (make sure to use the hashtag). Not a Tweeter? That's ok! Sharing comments on this blog is another great way to spread the love of rural. I can't wait to hear your favourite things about rural. 

Spread the trend! 

#ReasonsRuralRocks Top Ten Aug 22-26

(THIS POST WAS TRANSFERRED FROM MY PREVIOUS BLOG)


I'm very please to announce that, after a bit of a dry spell last week, the #ReasonsRuralRocks are coming in faster than ever! There were so many good ones this week that I couldn't narrow it down to only ten. That's right lucky readers, today you get 2 bonus reasons for the price of ten!

Honourable mentions:

You can drive your truck in the yard and no one cares @CircleBalpacas
Being able to park right outside the bank, drugstore, museum, etc. @midgelambert

10. Woodpeckers (5-6) on my lawn; a hummingbird hovers over the planter with bush and garden in the background. @celticperegrini
9. On Wednesdays in our town you can get a heaping plate of German food for cheaper than fast food. @WishekND
8. Seeing a game of road hockey in the streets and not feeling frightened that the children are in danger. @ACSRC
7. The first jars of pickled carrots. Grew the dill and carrots myself. @centralABBeth
6. Rural rocks because your neighbor will cut your lawn if need be. @Tojosan

and of course

5. If you really live rural they'll harvest your entire yearly crop for you! @CraigGMoore
4. You can live and work in a rural area for 4 months, yet have experiences and memories that will last a life time! @KendraKerrigan
3. It's easier to connect (and be connected) with the right people to get things done & make an impact. @creativebug
2. Your hometown is not where you are from, it is who you are. @royprevost

And, chosen by popular response, the Number One Reason Rural Rocks....

You can leave a bottle of wine on a doorstep, and be sure it will reach the right person.@BecyMcCray

A big thank you to all who shared #ReasonsRuralRocks this week. It was great to hear some new voices and to continue the conversation with old friends. @BeckyMcCray's response was clearly the most popular this week, showing up in multiple retweets. Maybe we were all feeling a bit thirsty?

Here's hoping that the weekend finds you enjoying rural, whether that be with a bottle of wine and good friends; out in the field; or simply gazing at a breathtaking view and thinking, "This is exactly where I'm meant to be."